Tag: books

  • How ‘Think and Grow Rich’ changed my life.

    How ‘Think and Grow Rich’ changed my life.

    If someone told me a book could literally shift my entire mindset, and keep doing it every single time I pick it up, I probably wouldn’t have believed them. But Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill is exactly that kind of book.

    First things first: it’s not the easiest read. The language is old-school, and some chapters feel like a mental workout. Honestly, it’s the kind of book you might finish, close, and think, “Wait… what did I just read?” But here’s the thing, that’s actually part of the magic.

    This is a book you don’t just read once and toss aside. It’s a book you re-read again and again because the value doesn’t come all at once. Every time I revisit it, I pick up something new, a fresh perspective, a reminder, or a spark of motivation that I desperately needed but didn’t realize.

    As someone who’s always battling my inner critic and trying to reframe my mindset, Think and Grow Rich has become my go-to reset. It teaches you that success, growth, and really living start from within, how you think, how you believe, and how you push past those mental blocks.

    What stuck with me the most is the idea that your mindset isn’t fixed. It’s a muscle. And like any muscle, it needs regular training. When life throws those “What if I fail?” moments at me, I go back to this book. It reminds me to flip the script, to think bigger, and to grow richer, not just in money, but in confidence, resilience, and purpose.

    So yes, it’s a tough read, but it’s worth it. If you’re the kind of person who needs a little nudge to keep your mindset in check, this might just become your favourite tough-love coach on paper.

    And honestly? I’m already planning my next re-read.

  • I went blonde (a few times) and they do have more fun.

    I went blonde (a few times) and they do have more fun.

    Going blonde wasn’t just a hair decision, it was an identity shift.
    A bold move. A “let’s change things up and see what happens” kind of energy. And let me tell you: something happens.

    It’s hard to explain unless you’ve done it, but there’s something about stepping into a new look (especially a blonde one) that feels like you’ve shaken off the old version of you, the one that played small, overthought everything, and needed permission to be bold. Suddenly, you’re walking into rooms with a little more confidence, making decisions a little faster, and flirting with the version of yourself you almost forgot existed.

    I didn’t go blonde thinking it would change my life… but it kind of did.

    Here’s why blondes do have more fun, especially when you’re in an era of rediscovery and becoming that girl again:

    1. You stop taking yourself so seriously (in the best way)

    Blonde energy is carefree energy. Not careless, carefree.
    It’s not about being perfect. It’s about choosing lightness. It’s permission to have fun again, flirt with life, and stop carrying the weight of every single decision.
    When I went blonde, I stopped needing to have it all figured out. I just let myself enjoy the moment more. Say yes to spontaneous nights out. Laugh louder. Wear the outfit I felt like wearing, not the one I thought I “should” wear.

    Sometimes when you’re figuring out who you are again, the best thing you can do is stop taking life so seriously and start playing a little more. Blonde-me understood that.

    2. You channel main character energy without trying

    Something about blonde hair makes people notice you, but more importantly, it makes you notice you.
    It’s the reminder that you can reinvent yourself whenever you want.
    And when you look in the mirror and see someone bold staring back at you, you feel bolder, too.

    Suddenly, you’re not overthinking the text.
    You’re walking with confidence.
    You’re trying new things.
    You’re becoming the version of you that you always imagined but never quite gave yourself the freedom to be.

    Going blonde became a symbol of my “I’m done playing small” era.
    And honestly? I’m still not over her.

    3. You unlock a new level of IDGAF energy

    You can’t go blonde without committing.
    You’re literally bleaching away the old.
    And that kind of commitment does something to your mindset, it shifts it.

    Blonde-me didn’t over-apologize.
    She didn’t obsess over what people thought.
    She said “ew” and moved on when things didn’t feel right.
    She posted the picture. She wore the red lipstick. She said no without explaining why.

    In short, going blonde helped me tap into my I don’t care what you think, I’m doing me era.

    And if you’re in the thick of rediscovery, healing, or just wanting to feel alive again… that kind of energy is magic.

    Going blonde might just be hair dye to some people.
    But to me? It was a line in the sand.
    A bold “I’m back, and I’m better” moment.
    A reminder that change can be fun. Reinvention can be healing. And sometimes, a new era starts at the salon.

    So yes… blondes do have more fun.
    Especially the ones finding themselves again.

  • What I’m reading right now…

    What I’m reading right now…

    Because personal growth is a weird mix of revolution, property management… and Tony Robbins.

    Lately, I’ve been reading a very random mix of books, and honestly? I love that for me. My current reading stack is a little self-help, a little dystopia, a little dad-core (yes, that’s a genre now), and somehow… it all makes sense.

    So, in case you’re looking for something to pick up next, or just want to peek inside my brain, here’s what’s on my shelf right now and why I’m into it:

    1. Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins
    This one’s like a personal trainer for your brain. It’s intense, a bit shouty at times, but also packed with useful mindset shifts.
    Tony really said: “You’re the problem and the solution,” and honestly, he’s not wrong. It’s giving “get your life together” energy in the best way.

    Takeaway so far: You get to decide how your life goes. You’re more powerful than you think. (And also, maybe I need a vision board.)

    2. Animal Farm by George Orwell
    A classic I somehow didn’t fully appreciate in school. Re-reading it now hits different, especially as an adult who pays taxes.
    It’s a short book, but wow. It says a lot with very few words.
    It’s also making me question everything. Power, control, the system… you know, light stuff.

    Takeaway: Just because everyone’s chanting doesn’t mean it’s the truth.

    3. Facility Management for Beginners by… my dad
    Yes, my actual dad wrote this book. Yes, I’m reading it.
    It’s a perfect beach read (it’s like having a University class on the beach), but I’m proud of him, and it’s surprisingly interesting to see how buildings are managed. Plus, it’s teaching me that passion can show up in unexpected places.

    Takeaway: Everyone’s an expert in something. Even HVAC systems. Upskilling yourself is always a good thing.

    4. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck by Mark Manson*
    You know this one. It’s straight-talking, kind of rude, and very real.
    It’s not about giving zero f*cks, it’s about choosing what actually matters.
    Perfect for when I start spiraling over random things that won’t matter next week.

    Takeaway: Care deeply, but about the right things.

    5. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill (aka my nightstand read)
    This is a mindset classic. The title sounds a bit money-obsessed, but it’s more about your thoughts, beliefs, and focus.
    It’s old-school in its language, but the message holds up: what you focus on expands.

    Takeaway: Success starts in your mind. You have to believe it before you live it.

    So yes… my current reads are kind of all over the place, but they’re keeping my brain engaged, curious, and growing.

    Some are pushing me, some are grounding me, and one is helping me understand mechanical ventilation systems (thanks, Dad).

    And that’s the beauty of books, you never know which one will shift something in you.

    What are you reading right now?