Tag: summer

  • It’s Sunday. It’s Hot.

    It’s Sunday. It’s Hot.

    It’s Sunday. The kind of Sunday where everything feels slower, softer, and slightly dreamlike, except for the heat. It’s almost Christmas, but Cape Town is doing what Cape Town does best: serving full summer energy. The sun is out, the air is heavy, and even doing the bare minimum feels like a lot.

    Today feels like one of those days that isn’t asking for productivity or plans. It’s asking for rest, cold drinks, open windows, and permission to move at half speed. A day where the goal is simply to feel comfortable and a little bit present, even when the temperature says otherwise.

    When the heat hits like this, I’ve learned to stop fighting it and start working with it. Here are three simple, realistic ways to keep cool during a Cape Town summer, especially on days like today.

    1. Change the pace, not the plan.
    On hot days, everything feels harder because we’re trying to move at normal speed in abnormal weather. Instead of pushing through, slow the tempo. Stretch things out. Sit down more often. Do less, but do it gently. Even simple things like slower mornings, longer breaks, or postponing non-urgent plans can make the heat feel more manageable.

    2. Cool your body, not just the room.
    Fans and aircon help, but cooling yourself directly works faster. Cold showers, rinsing your wrists with cold water, keeping a chilled face mist in the fridge, or placing a cold cloth on the back of your neck can instantly bring relief. It’s small, but it makes a difference, especially when the air feels thick and unmoving.

    3. Eat and drink like it’s summer.
    Heavy meals in this heat are a no. Think light, hydrating, and easy: fruit, smoothies, salads, iced teas, and plenty of water. Even switching to colder drinks or adding ice to everything can help regulate your body temperature. Sometimes staying cool is less about doing more and more about not overloading yourself.

    Days like today aren’t meant to be maximized. They’re meant to be felt, slowly, imperfectly, and with a bit of grace. It’s Sunday. It’s hot. Christmas is close. And if all you do today is stay cool and take it easy, that’s more than enough.

  • how to mentally prepare for summer (eeek).

    how to mentally prepare for summer (eeek).

    Summer’s coming, and honestly, that’s kind of exciting.
    The energy shifts. The days stretch longer. Everything feels lighter, freer, a little bit golden. But with that comes this quiet pressure to do more, to fill every weekend, to make memories, to be “on” all the time.

    And while it’s fun to crave a main-character summer moment, it’s also okay to want something slower. Maybe this year isn’t about changing everything. Maybe it’s about actually being present for the good stuff you already have.

    Here’s how to mentally prepare for the season, without the pressure to glow up, fix yourself, or turn into a beachy Pinterest board version of you.

    1. Romanticize the real summer.

    Let’s be honest: the perfect summer doesn’t exist, but the real one? That’s where the magic is. Think: long walks at sunset, cold drinks on a warm night, hair that smells like sunscreen, music playing from someone’s car. That’s the good stuff.
    Try this: instead of planning the perfect summer, make a “feel list”, how do you want this season to feel? Calm? Playful? Free? Once you know that, build small moments that match it.

    2. Protect your peace (and your social battery)

    Summer can be social overload, plans, parties, beach days, last-minute everything. It’s easy to burn out trying to keep up with everyone else’s version of “fun.”
    Try this: be intentional with your yes’s. For every social plan, plan a recharge moment too, a solo coffee, a quiet beach walk, a day with no expectations. Summer is supposed to fill your cup, not empty it.

    3. Let “good enough” be the vibe.

    You don’t have to transform just because the season changed. You don’t have to become “that girl” or have your life together by June.
    Try this: do one thing every day that helps you feel like you. Read outside. Go for a drive. Make your favourite playlist. It’s not about being ready for summer, it’s about feeling alive in it.

    This summer isn’t about pressure. It’s about peace.
    It’s soft mornings, salty skin, laughter you didn’t plan for. It’s giving yourself permission to exist, as you are, where you are, right now.

    Same you, just a little sunnier.